Hey there, I'm Tabitha...

I’m a mom and wife, living in the suburbs just outside Dallas, TX with husband, Jordan (of Daddy’s Man Cave) and our four (Chloe, Travis, Harrison, & Mara) amazing children — in a multicultural, blended family and multi-generational home — where my mother lives with us.

I was born and raised in St. Louis, MO where I lived most of my life before moving to TEXAS. We’re currently planning our next great adventure — building our dream home and a small farm in Montana, where Jordan was born and my in-laws still live!

Having started my first “mom blog” in 2005 when I was pregnant with my oldest, I’ve been sharing about my life, motherhood & family for years. Relaunched in 2020, MOTHERHOOD & CHAOS is where my family, and I share our life and our journey honestly.

Your Millenial Mom Bestie...

My purpose is to encourage women (like YOU) to embrace the beauty and messiness of life, and find joy in imperfection. My hope is that you find community here, and that you see yourself and feel seen in my honesty.


  • Celebrate REAL LIFE & imperfection
  • Normalize seeing positive, thriving, black/multi-cultural families 
  • Tell stories and give perspective on family, marriage, and life from our faceted, millennial and multi-cultural worldview
  • Share recipes for picky eaters — because seriously, how many days can a toddler ONLY eat macaroni?! Ours would love to find out…

Want To Work With Me?

Reach out and let’s talk about your next project!

If filling out contact forms isn’t your thing, email Tabitha at: [email protected]